Do you still have feeling for your ex, do you want to win him or her back?

Going through a break up is tough, and you probably would have received a lot of advice telling you to move on and find someone else. You might have heard that you can do better and that you don’t need him. Well what if you don’t want to do better and you don’t want to move on, here are some tips on how you can win back your ex and enjoy a relationship better than before the break up.
1. The first thing you should NOT do is beg your ex back, don’t nag them with constant calls; don’t bombard their inbox with desperate text messages. This will go against your natural instinct because all you want to do is tell them that you still love them and want them back, but it is really the worst and most irritating thing you can do to your ex. Restrain yourself from turning up unannounced at their home, they will get annoyed with you constantly STALKING them, and it will confirm to them that they made the right decision by breaking up with you.
2. Another thing to avoid doing, is behaving lie a doormat, don’t tell your ex that you would do anything for the, they will walk all over you and use you. You are giving them all the power by laying yourself out there and basically telling them that you are willing to do whatever it takes to get them back. You need to maintain your dignity and self-respect. Acting le your life is over because your ex broke up with you will make them lose any respect they had for you.
3. Do not and we mean DO NOT freak out if your ex starts seeing someone else, this will probably be the hardest thing to do, but maintain your cool. Apart from the fact that there is nothing you can do about it, do you really want to be seen as the insane jealous obsessive staler ex-girlfriend or boyfriend. No…rebound relationships is pretty standard procedure, it doesn’t mean that your ex has found a new permanent girlfriend or boyfriend.
4. Make sure you remain available, don’t constantly have a sting of boyfriends otherwise it will put your ex off coming back to you and will confuse them on whether or not you are actually single. Being laid back and comfortable being single will show your ex that you are not needy and that you are comfortable in your own skin.
5. Fill the gap. If you struggle with neediness, you’re probably a little lacking in the self-esteem department. You might be looking for your ex to make you feel better about yourself, but the fact is that you are the only person who can really do that. You shouldn’t base your happiness on someone else. Sure, it’s okay for someone to make you happy, but if they’re your only source of happiness, you might become angry or sad whenever they’re not around, and that can be very demanding for the other person! It makes them feel guilty, obligated and eventually, resentful towards you.